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Something I realized about people

Thu Jun 12, 2008, 3:14 AM
  • Mood: Contempt
  • Listening to: computer hum
  • Reading: Black Man - Richard Morgan
  • Watching: the sun rise
  • Playing: Kingdom Hearts / KH:CoM
  • Eating: Spitz
  • Drinking: water
Sometimes, I have these moments when I wonder why people are such assholes to strangers they don't even know. In the workplace, in the market, walking down the street.

Then I realize and it's all done out of pure selfishness, and by taking a stance that lets one view the big picture, anyone can see that it's absolutely hilarious.

Here's an example particular to me:

Some guy goes to a fast food restaurant and receives his fries a little on the cool side because there were seven people in front of him and his food has been bagged for a minute more than usual. He rages at the cashier.

Stop and think. Does that man consider that the cashier he just spat in the face of just had a miscarriage, or perhaps just lost her boyfriend, or mother, had her car stolen? Do you think he cares if the person who bagged his fries just got called a nigger by someone in drivethrough and is upset by it? Maybe the entire staff just got a paycut, or lost a staff member they cared about.

No.

That guy only cares that his personal dining experience wasn't perfectly satisfactory. He cared so much and so violently, that he had to impact someone else's life in a negative way.

When they said way back that the sun revolved around the earth, they were already well on their way to this state of existence. Who is our Galileo now?

Sorry, was just framing a metaphor for someone in particular. You know who you are.

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:iconlittleartemis:
Ugh. I know what that is like. And sometimes employees can be nasty to each other. I worked as a dishwaher at a restraunt, and I was still in training of how things worked. Well this bitch of a cook comes up and starts threatening my highschool graduation all because I wasn't scrubbing the pots and pants the way she did it. It's like, 'hello. I'm not you, I'm new, and I do things the way I like.' I really hate nasty people like that, who pick on the weaker ones...

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:iconcarnival:
bleh, yeah~~~~ -_- people,....... occasionally, it happens.. :'/

it'd just do everyone a world of good to try and think about all those things and more happening to the others they ass-fart upon,.. not to mention those who take the brunt of it ~______~

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:iconwildfirefox:
To be fair... cold fries are awful.

...but they are only fries. If he had such a problem with them, he should have just waited a little to complain politely. But oh well. =p

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:iconvahn-malice:
Perhaps I'm just unusual, but I try to think before I say something. Only if I've had a terrible day will I even display that I'm upset at all...


I'm only rude when people are rude to me. I put people in their place.

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:iconsandpuppeteer:
I totally understand what you mean. It's this whole "entitlement" thing people have going on. They think they deserve something just because they draw breath into their body. And it's a lot worse when you're not face to face with the person--over the phone.

Two things need to happen in order to repair this problem, and it will more than likely take several generations before any change is seen. First, erase the idea of "the customer is always right" because "always" tends to make people take things way too far.

Second, kill people's self esteem. Make them more self conscious. So many people are treated with this air of "You're very special and deserve everything wonderful." Well....what happens if a dog decides to use your new carpet instead of the grass outside when it's time to go? If you don't rub his nose in it and tell him he did a bad thing, he will never learn. The same with people. Of course, this can't happen in the service industry. It has to happen much younger.

.....sorry. This happens to be something I see and think about on a near daily basis. It's comforting to know there are some people out there that actually see what's wrong with people.

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:iconzeldafreak-vikki:
I like cold fries. :D

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